Not All Infertility News Is Bad News!

I realized the other day that my most recent blogposts were presenting nothing but the "bad news" about trying to get pregnant. Lots of "don't do this" and "here's something else to avoid" can add up in a fertility patient's mind to "Well, what's the use in trying?!"

I was browsing the Internet for topics of interest to my blog readers when I stumbled on this: "Women ditched me because I was infertile" (It sounds like an ad, but it's an article on the Daily Mirror.)
 The young man's story perfectly illustrates so many aspects of why we do what we do at Houston Fertility Center.

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Not many men feel secure enough to reveal their deepest emotions about their infertility, and particularly in the way that this semi-pro football player in Great Britain did. His loss of a testicle to cancer -- without fertility preservation efforts prior to cancer treatment -- resulted in a distressing mix of relief from being a survivor and embarassment at "losing his manhood". He even felt that his diagnosed inability to father a child kept women from wanting to be his partner.

I won't reveal the whole story to you -- it really is a sweetly romantic tale worthy of a screenplay, and I encourage you to read it on the Daily Mirror's website.

It's important to stay on top of new research findings, as well as all of the fertility basics that are already known to optimize your chances at pregnancy. But now and then, it's also good to just bask in the hope of others' true stories.

~ Dr. Sonja Kristiansen MD

Depression, Even Among Infertile, Should Never Be Shrugged Off

Speaking as a physician who has specialized for years in helping infertile men and women get pregnant, the high rate of depression among fertility patients is understandable. And for some patients, it's a little bit of a chicken-and-egg situation: Which came first, the struggles of infertility or the clinical depression? Whichever the case, something we do know is that treating your depression is crucial.

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A common question in my office: "Dr. Kristiansen, should I continue taking my depression medication while we're going through fertility treatment?"

My general answer: If it works, keep it up, but there are a few exceptions.

This is a really tough decision for most patients, because they've often done enough of their own research to be confused by the data, even from well-done scientific studies. You can find large-scale, carefully conducted research that says depression, itself, seems to decrease fertility, even with fertility treatment. You'll also see studies that say women who are using depression medication have higher rates of fertility treatment cycles canceled.

Men, too, may have something to worry about if they're trying to become a dad and need to treat their depression. A small 2009 study demonstrated that men using paroxetine (Paxil) had significantly higher rates of sperm DNA fragmentation, which can lower their fertile potential.

Until we know more about links between fertility and depression and depression medication, physicians and patients are instituting choices based on the more established data about impact during pregnancy. Here, fertility treatment provides an advantage over conceiving without fertility assistance. The benefit has to do with timing.

Women using fertility treatment virtually know the moment conception takes place. There are far fewer mysteries when you're inseminated or you've had embryos transferred. And since we know some depression medications when taken during pregnancy are closely linked to congenital defects, essentially scheduling conception allows the woman to make choices in advance. She may choose to stick with her current medication, or she may talk to her prescribing practitioner about using an alternative treatment.

I and my staff at Houston Fertility Center encourage our patients to speak frankly with the health care professional who prescribes their depression treatment. Tell them you are trying to get pregnant, even before you make the choice to use fertility treatment. In no case do I ever recommend that you simply avoid making a choice.

The hormonal fluctuations that every woman undergoes through both fertility treatment and pregnancy can have a tremendous impact on  your emotional well-being. If you already know you experience depression, or if you start to experience mood swings or emotional dullness that are worrisome, keep all of your health care providers in the loop. That way we can work together as a team for the benefit of you and your hoped-for baby.

~ Dr. Sonja Kristiansen M.D.